Heather and Andrew share why part-time fostering works for them

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Heather and Andrew have been fostering with Liverpool as part-time (respite) carers for around 3 years. We asked them how part-time fostering fits in with their life.  Here's their story so far…

What does fostering mean to you?

We wanted to build a different type of family. With extra space and capacity in our lives, fostering felt like a meaningful way to make a difference in our community. Our family might look a little different, but we wanted to show that there are many ways to be a family in this world. For us, that includes fostering children, however long they may be with us.

What's been your highlight so far?

One of our most rewarding experiences was supporting a child who initially came to us during an emergency placement. He stayed for six weeks before moving to a full-time carer. Now, we provide ongoing weekend care for him once a month. Using therapeutic caring techniques, we were able to help him reset and thrive. His social worker even remarked on how much he’d changed. Some of our best memories with him include silly dance parties in our living room, taking turns picking songs, and just letting him enjoy being a kid.

What do you like most about fostering?

The bond you create with the child is special. Even if you’re not with them for their entire journey, you know you’ve played a positive role in their life story. These connections can leave lasting memories for both the child and yourself, bringing light to what might be a challenging time for them. Just being able to have that connection to various other people in your community, and to feel a part of a community bringing up a child, I think is really special.

A closer look at part-time fostering

We’ve found part-time fostering to be an incredibly fulfilling role. The boy we support initially came to us during an emergency placement, and we developed a strong relationship with him. Now, he comes to stay with us for short breaks, which we make all about him. These weekends give him focused, one-on-one attention in a space where he can relax and reset.

Part-time care also supports his long-term carers by giving them time to recharge. We’ve had the privilege of meeting his long-term carers and we think the world of them. It’s inspiring to be part of a wider fostering community all working together to support this child. Being part of that team effort feels incredibly special.

Why does part-time fostering work for you?

We’re a little different from the 'typical image' of foster carers. We’re a little younger, we don’t have children of our own, and find that fostering fits beautifully into our lives. It’s one of the most positive things we’ve ever done.

When we started, we didn’t know much about part-time fostering, but it has become a perfect fit for us. Even short placements, like a weekend or a week, can make a huge difference. It not only supports long-term carers but also provides children with a change of scenery. Even if it’s only for the weekend or a week, it really does make a contribution and we’re proud to have that role.

• We cater our activities to the children's interests to make them feel welcome. I'm not into footie, but I have played and watched a lot of football over the last two years. I've learnt facts about players and their celebration dances too! Andrew, Foster Carer